The Cardinal Rule of Sexual Strategies
When I first began writing on SoSuave over a decade ago I used to get into what I consider now some fairly predictable arguments about monogamy. It was an interesting time since it was around then I...
View ArticleThe Key Masters
In last week’s comments Not Born This Morning dropped this comment in the last thread: It has been said and it seems fairly well established as a presumed reality that “Women are the gate keepers to...
View ArticleLosing My Religion
In the interests of full disclosure, I’ll admit I’ve had this post in my drafts folder for some time now. As always, standard caveats apply with regard to my policy on posts about religion, politics,...
View ArticleThe Best Of The Rational Male – Year 5
Well another year has come and gone. I generally view the end of August as my year marker for The Rational Male. I didn’t add a page for year 4 since I’m not sure I want to clutter up the top of my...
View ArticleA Woman’s Prerogative
“A woman talks to one man, looks at a second, and thinks of a third.” – Niti Sataka Reader/Blogger Ian Ironwood had a really on-point comment about last week’s piece that I’d already considered for...
View ArticleFor Better or Worse
Before I dive in here today it’s going to be important to put things into perspective with respect to an Old Married Guy becoming Red Pill aware and then applying what he’s learned in his marriage. In...
View ArticleEnvironmental Stresses
If there’s one Google search term that’s become synonymous with The Rational Male it’s the word ‘Hypergamy’. Seriously, Google it. If you listen to my seminar lecture from the Man in Demand conference...
View ArticleSexual Zoning
Höllenhund brought up an interesting thought a few weeks ago: This reminds me of something I wanted to ask here in general. The general narrative about MGTOW in the ‘sphere is that they are “avoiding...
View ArticleThe Something Else
New commenter batfish55 had a stroke of genius in this weeks post. I do blow hours on my XBox, but even if modern graphics weren’t amazing and there was no XBox, I’d find something else. This is...
View ArticleSMV and the Aging Process
A comment from a woman on enotalone.com: I am 31 years old, and not looking for anyone, but I have a lot of guy friends/acquaintances my age and the trend I see is a bit disheartening. There’s about 8...
View ArticleBlue Pill Alphas
A comment from Softek gets us started today: My friend was telling me the other night how seeing multiple women “isn’t worth it.” I’ve heard that more than once from more than one of my friends. And...
View ArticleThe Unbearable Rightness of Being Female
The following post quote has been making the rounds in professional circles. It’s from Sallie Krawcheck, CEO of Ellevest, an investment firm dedicated to helping women with financial investment (no...
View ArticleRites of Passage
In the past I’ve discussed the hesitancy of young men to refer to themselves as ‘men’ or to really even embrace what might be considered a ‘conventional’ idea of masculinity. You’ve probably read me...
View ArticleThe Power of Emotion
Science fiction has always sought to portray human emotion as a weakness to be overcome. Some have gone further to express the notion of our physical being as a limiting factor. This is notably seen...
View ArticleThe Awareness
I feel I should begin here with a bit of a disclaimer. I don’t think any of my regular readers would ever presume this blog’s intent was anything but to help men unplug from their Blue Pill...
View ArticleDisassembling ONEitis
Just a personal note here; at the end of November I accepted a very lucrative promo contract for a large entertainment/gaming corporation. It should last me a while and keep me busy in several states...
View ArticleAlpha-Beta Communication Modes
I had a really good comment from Rites of Passage from Elooie I’ve been meaning to get back to for a while now: This post has been here for about a week so this comment might get buried but I was...
View ArticleThe Reconstruction I
One of the most common misperceptions for guys coming into a Red Pill awareness experience is an expectation of being able to use that awareness and Game to reconstruct an old relationship. Most often...
View ArticleThe Reconstruction II
One of the most influential books I’ve ever read I picked up from my father’s home library when I was about 25. That book was Dr. Warren Farrell’s Why Men Are The Way They Are. At the time it didn’t...
View ArticleThe Reconstruction III
I added this video today to illustrate a point, watch it carefully and with a Red Pill Lens. In this post-sexual revolution 2017 there is a strong want for the fulfillment of what I call the Old...
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